We want to consider the non-overlapping elements of a pair of sets.
In other words, we want to consider the set of elements which is one or the other but not in both. The symmetric difference (or Boolean sum) of a set with another set is the union of the difference between the latter set and the former set and the difference between the former and the latter.
Let $A$ and $B$ denote sets.
We denote the symmetric difference by $A + B$,
so that
\[
A + B = (A - B) \cup (B - A)
\]
Here are some immediate properties of symmetric differences.1